We recently asked the people in our networks on LinkedIn what their biggest obstacle to their professional growth is, and the responses were very insightful...
1. Too many competing priorities
2. Fear, anxiety, and self-judgment
3. Lack of a support system
In this episode of the Solutions Manual podcast, we address #3 and talk about what a support system is, common assumptions and mistakes people make about their support in the corporate environment, how to audit your own network, and taking the next step in refocusing your resources on having a support system that will help you rather than hinder you.
KEY MESSAGE: Be proactive in building and re-building your support system of mentors, coaches, sponsors, friends, and family who will provide you the support you need to advance personally and professionally. Removing people from your life who stop you from growing (or worse: drag you down) is often necessary.
Resources
Further Reading
Chiaburu, D. S., & Harrison, D. A. (2008). Do peers make the place? Conceptual synthesis and meta-analysis of coworker effects on perceptions, attitudes, OCBs, and performance. Journal of Applied Psychology, 93(5), 1082–1103.
Drageset, J. (2021). Social support and its impact on job satisfaction and emotional well-being. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 26(1), 1–12.
Ozbay, F., Johnson, D. C., Dimoulas, E., Morgan, C. A., Charney, D., & Southwick, S. (2007). Social support and resilience to stress: from neurobiology to clinical practice. Psychiatry (Edgmont), 4(5), 35–40.
Leow, S., & Ng, M. (2020). The role of social support in dealing with different types of stressors in the workplace. In Workplace Stress Management (pp. 45–60).
Saphire-Bernstein, S. (2013). Close relationships and happiness. In The Oxford Handbook of Happiness.
McCullough, M. E., Worthington, E. L., & Rachal, K. C. (1997). Interpersonal forgiving in close relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 73(2), 321–336
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